The marriage issue has gone political, as seemingly most important issues are of the day, and the whole question as to whether homosexuality is in fact normal is lost in the bickering of whether the government should be involved with defining marriage, states rights, or some other issue. An article below summarizing the old English theologian, GK Chesterton's take on the matter puts things into perspective. A quote from the article below.
But Chesterton's prophecy remains: We will not be able to destroy the family. We will merely destroy ourselves by disregarding the family.
Homosexuality, Birth Control, Divorce, State-sponsored education: all these issues are related and attack the basic order of the family. What is right and what is wrong? Is that not the question we should be asking? These issues deal with morality and what determines morality, when God is removed from the equation, is whatever we feel like at the moment. And at the moment, we live in a culture that is forgetting more and more about God and accepting more and more formally abnormal behaviors as normal.
Thus, the debate becomes superficial and does not really address the underlying important issue. As GK points out, just because marriage between gays is legalized, this does not mean it is right or normal. The culture needs to be changed in order for these laws to be changed as the laws on the books really reflect cultures view on morality, ethics, what's right and wrong. Ones view on morality ultimately depends on how one sees Truth, ones internal compass, view of God and religion, etc.
Many on the right and in the faith try to defend marriage, but have removed themselves from culture and have allowed Hollywood to the Media to define what is normal behavior, thus their voice is being drowned out of the picture. Society has forgotten God over time and has instituted a self-centered morality, with free love, no-fault divorce, and birth control pills removing any need for love or responsibility from sex.
Sure the court may rule in favor of homosexuality. But even if they legalize it, that doesn't mean it is right. The battle for Truth continues. Faith in God and responsiveness to faith and virtue will need to take place first before we can expect to see change in our laws. In the meantime, culture continues to become more and more secular and Christian ethics and norms continue to be eroded and replaced with more secular versions of morality.
From the WSJ: Court Weighs Gay Marriage
Marriage is between a man and a woman. That is the order. And the Catholic Church teaches that it is a sacramental order, with divine implications. The world has made a mockery of marriage that has now culminated with homosexual unions. But it was heterosexual men and women who paved the way to this decay. Divorce, which is an abnormal thing, is now treated as normal. Contraception, another abnormal thing, is now treated as normal. Abortion is still not normal, but it is legal. Making homosexual "marriage" legal will not make it normal, but it will add to the confusion of the times. And it will add to the downward spiral of our civilization. But Chesterton's prophecy remains: We will not be able to destroy the family. We will merely destroy ourselves by disregarding the family.Good read from CatholicEducation
G.K. Chesterton: It's Not Gay, and It's Not MarriageDALE AHLQUIST
Chesterton was so consistently right in his pronouncements and prophecies because he understood that anything that attacked the family was bad for society.
Chesterton was so consistently right in his pronouncements and prophecies because he understood that anything that attacked the family was bad for society. That is why he spoke out against eugenics and contraception, against divorce and "free love" (another term he disliked because of its dishonesty), but also against wage slavery and compulsory state-sponsored education and mothers hiring other people to do what mothers were designed to do themselves. It is safe to say that Chesterton stood up against every trend and fad that plagues us today because every one of those trends and fads undermines the family. Big Government tries to replace the family's authority, and Big Business tries to replace the family's autonomy. There is a constant commercial and cultural pressure on father, mother, and child. They are minimized and marginalized and, yes, mocked. But as Chesterton says, "This triangle of truisms, of father, mother and child, cannot be destroyed; it can only destroy those civilizations which disregard it."
This latest attack on the family is neither the latest nor the worst.
But it has a shock value to it, in spite of the process of de-sensitization that the information and entertainment industries have been putting us through the past several years. Those who have tried to speak out against the normalization of the abnormal have been met with "either slanging or silence," as Chesterton was when he attempted to argue against the faddish philosophies that were promoted by the major newspapers in his day. In 1926, he warned, "The next great heresy will be an attack on morality, especially sexual morality." His warning has gone unheeded, and sexual morality has decayed progressively. But let us remember that it began with birth control, which is an attempt to create sex for sex's sake, changing the act of love into an act of selfishness. The promotion and acceptance of lifeless, barren, selfish sex has logically progressed to homosexuality.
Chesterton shows that the problem of homosexuality as an enemy of civilization is quite old. In The Everlasting Man, he describes the nature-worship and "mere mythology" that produced a perversion among the Greeks. "Just as they became unnatural by worshipping nature, so they actually became unmanly by worshipping man." Any young man, he says, "who has the luck to grow up sane and simple" is naturally repulsed by homosexuality because "it is not true to human nature or to common sense." He argues that if we attempt to act indifferent about it, we are fooling ourselves. It is "the illusion of familiarity," when "a perversion become[s] a convention."
In Heretics, Chesterton almost makes a prophecy of the misuse of the word "gay." He writes of "the very powerful and very desolate philosophy of Oscar Wilde. It is the carpe diem religion." Carpe diem means "seize the day," do whatever you want and don't think about the consequences, live only for the moment. "But the carpe diem religion is not the religion of happy people, but of very unhappy people." There is a hopelessness as well as a haplessness to it. When sex is only a momentary pleasure, when it offers nothing beyond itself, it brings no fulfillment. It is literally lifeless. And as Chesterton writes in his book St. Francis of Assisi, the minute sex ceases to be a servant, it becomes a tyrant. This is perhaps the most profound analysis of the problem of homosexuals: they are slaves to sex. They are trying to "pervert the future and unmake the past." They need to be set free.
Chesterton points out that balance that our truth must not be pitiless, but neither can our pity be untruthful.
Chesterton referred to Wilde's homosexual behavior as a "highly civilized" sin, something that was a worse affliction among the wealthy and cultured classes. It was a sin that was never a temptation for Chesterton, and he says that it is no great virtue for us never to commit a sin for which we are not tempted. That is another reason we must treat our homosexual brothers and sisters with compassion. We know our own sins and weaknesses well enough. Philo of Alexandria said, "Be kind. Everyone you meet is fighting a terrible battle." But compassion must never compromise with evil. Chesterton points out that balance that our truth must not be pitiless, but neither can our pity be untruthful. Homosexuality is a disorder. It is contrary to order. Homosexual acts are sinful, that is, they are contrary to God's order. They can never be normal. And worse yet, they can never even be even. As Chesterton's great detective Father Brown says: "Men may keep a sort of level of good, but no man has ever been able to keep on one level of evil. That road goes down and down."
Marriage is between a man and a woman. That is the order. And the Catholic Church teaches that it is a sacramental order, with divine implications. The world has made a mockery of marriage that has now culminated with homosexual unions. But it was heterosexual men and women who paved the way to this decay. Divorce, which is an abnormal thing, is now treated as normal. Contraception, another abnormal thing, is now treated as normal. Abortion is still not normal, but it is legal. Making homosexual "marriage" legal will not make it normal, but it will add to the confusion of the times. And it will add to the downward spiral of our civilization. But Chesterton's prophecy remains: We will not be able to destroy the family. We will merely destroy ourselves by disregarding the family.